September 2021

Starting your first job is stressful for so many reasons. By the time your first day arrives the excitement of being hired has faded away and all you’re left with worrying if you even meet the job requirements and if your coworkers will be giant pains in the ass. On top of everything else, you never truly know what the dress code is until you’ve been there a few days, so you risk looking way too overdressed or like one giant slob.

While I can’t tell you what to wear every day of the week, I can steer you towards stores where I buy all my work clothes whether my dress code is business casual or dress like the Secretary of Defense is coming. True story, I once got an email to wear my nicest outfit because the Secretary of Defense was visiting our office.

Because I bought most of my clothes straight out of college, with no money or type of job in mind, I aimed to keep my costs low in case everything failed and I had nowhere to even wear the freaking clothes. Most of these stores you can find in any shopping mall area, or even better, you can just pick up what you like online. Below each retailer are a few of my faves that are both in stock and perfect for the workplace!
Target is my go to store for so many reasons. Not only can I grab groceries and toys for my cat Max while there, I also spent six months working at Target in the guest services area. This means I know the return policy backwards and forwards, which is great when you’re buying things you’re not sure you need or even really want. Target doesn’t get the credit it deserves for business casual clothes, with an even bigger selection online. During major holidays Target offers free shipping no matter the size of your order, otherwise shipping costs aren’t ridiculously high and you can qualify for free shipping when you spend 50 dollars. The main reason I love Target for work clothes is because I can order everything I find cute online, try it on at home, and return it with no problems if it looks weird on me. Lost your receipt? No problem. Just swipe the card you paid with and they’ll transfer the money into your account that way. I swear this post isn’t sponsored by Target, but I really should be because I’m basically a walking, talking billboard for that store.
H&M is where you need to be if you’re looking for the perfect blazer or work blouse. While I own some pants from there, their sizing is all over the place. I own a pair of pants in size 2 and another in a size 8. Both bought on the same day, from the same store, same brand. Clearly they like to play with women’s emotions. Cardigans, blouses and dress skirts are usually pretty inexpensive. The more expensive things are usually dresses or blazers, but those are investment pieces and really never go higher than 55 dollars. Next time you’re in H&M step away from the crop tops and take a quick look at the business clothes section, you might be pleasantly surprised.
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I have a love hate relationship with Forever 21. I love their prices (usually) but I hate what it’s become. Or maybe I’ve just grown older and less inclined to wear tops with sequins and words like swag on my body. Forever 21 is really a hit or miss when it comes to work clothes, and I definitely recommend shopping in the Love21/contemporary line exclusively.

My biggest piece of advice is to stay away from blazers from Forever 21, they will rip, and you will be pissed. Stick to buying blouses and cardigans here, wardrobe staples that you don’t plan on keeping forever, despite the name on the label.

If you are, or were once, a broke college grad like me, this is the place you go when you wanna treat yo’self for landing your top internship choice or getting hired at that job that pays you for being sick. As a skinny girl, I can admit I have no butt. Technically yes, there is a butt on my body, but it doesn’t do that thing where it curves in all the right places.

Express has managed to create pencil skirts that make me feel like one of the Kardashian sisters when I wear it, and for this I am forever thankful for. Besides being one of the few stores that sells a size zero (honestly though, why are stores pushing our size out?), Express offers so many wear to work options. Their prices may be higher than the previous stores mentioned, but you can definitely see a difference in the quality. Catch them when they’re having a sale and buy a few staple pieces for your wardrobe.

Where do you buy your work clothes from? Comment below your favorite places to find work clothes that won’t leave your bank account drained. 

Five years have passed since I last sat down for Thanksgiving dinner with my family. Even though the holiday was never that big of a deal in my home, it’s one of those days where everyone expects you to travel back to where you’re from and spend the day with relatives. The only problem? I live three thousand miles away from all of my relatives. So yeah, I will definitely once again be flying solo this year. Whether you are thinking about spending the holidays alone this year because you’re stuck at school or stuck working the day after the holiday, don’t worry, I’m a seasoned veteran on how to not hate the holidays even if you don’t have a home cooked meal to push you into a food coma. With so many different options of what to do, none including being asked about your relationship status by nosy relatives, you might even be a little glad that you saved yourself the price of airfare and survived the holidays all on your own. Or maybe with the help of just a few friends. This tip is especially applicable if you are still in college, because with so many people on campus, you can’t possibly be the only one that didn’t have the chance to go home for the holidays. Pay attention to flyers around school or campus emails, there are usually events planned in or around campus targeted towards a holiday celebration for those who stuck around. An alternative is to find friends or fellow dorm neighbors who are in town and host a Friendsgiving. Have everyone bring one dish and voila, dinner is served! While you could technically host your own Thanksgiving dinner in college, who has the time, money or cooking abilities? Am I right? If you’ve aged a bit, think 22 and up, try hosting your own dinner for a change. You can still encourage guests to bring a side dish, just make sure you cover the essentials like turkey and mashed potatoes. Any friends who are local to the area or just don’t want to spend the money to travel home can attend, leaving you looking like the most generous host of the year. Whether you’re in college or just being an adult, attending a close friend’s or significant other’s family dinner is an option. As long as they promise to not leave your side at any moment, because hello, awkward! While this might be easier if you’re younger, it’s not totally out of the norm to be someone’s plus one at a holiday party. As long as the dinner isn’t super intimate you should be fine, but just in case, bring a little something like a pie to show your appreciation. My senior year of college I spent Thanksgiving volunteering at a local food bank in my university town. After spending the day serving food and talking to people in the community I suddenly wished I hadn’t spent the last 3 years moping about being stuck at home alone on the holiday. Taking the time to give back to your community is so rewarding, and is especially helpful during holiday seasons when regular volunteers travel back home or have plans of their own. Take the step to call local shelter and soup kitchen to ask if they need any extra help for the day. With apps like Skype, Hangouts, Facetime and about a million other forms of communication, there’s no reason to feel like you are completely separated from those you love. Spend the time to call your mom or dad, I’m sure they’ll love it no matter how busy the day is. If you feel you need an excuse to interrupt the festivities (which you don’t by the way) just ask for some help on how to make that dish you all used to eat together. Real talk, I always call my mom to ask her at what temperature to bake my chicken because no one bakes chicken as good as that woman. Instead of stressing out about all the things you’re missing back home use the time to start a tradition of your own. With five years of celebrating on my own I’ve grown comfortable with my own Thanksgiving routine, which is making a dinner for one, complaining how there is nothing good on TV and stalking the website of all my favorite stores. I’m too terrified to shop on Black Friday so I just like to watch from a distance.

What are your plans for Thanksgiving this year? Will you be with friends, family or flying solo?

Five years have passed since I last sat down for Thanksgiving dinner with my family. Even though the holiday was never that big of a deal in my home, it’s one of those days where everyone expects you to travel back to where you’re from and spend the day with relatives. The only problem? I live three thousand miles away from all of my relatives. So yeah, I will definitely once again be flying solo this year. Whether you are thinking about spending the holidays alone this year because you’re stuck at school or stuck working the day after the holiday, don’t worry, I’m a seasoned veteran on how to not hate the holidays even if you don’t have a home cooked meal to push you into a food coma. With so many different options of what to do, none including being asked about your relationship status by nosy relatives, you might even be a little glad that you saved yourself the price of airfare and survived the holidays all on your own. Or maybe with the help of just a few friends. This tip is especially applicable if you are still in college, because with so many people on campus, you can’t possibly be the only one that didn’t have the chance to go home for the holidays. Pay attention to flyers around school or campus emails, there are usually events planned in or around campus targeted towards a holiday celebration for those who stuck around. An alternative is to find friends or fellow dorm neighbors who are in town and host a Friendsgiving. Have everyone bring one dish and voila, dinner is served! While you could technically host your own Thanksgiving dinner in college, who has the time, money or cooking abilities? Am I right? If you’ve aged a bit, think 22 and up, try hosting your own dinner for a change. You can still encourage guests to bring a side dish, just make sure you cover the essentials like turkey and mashed potatoes. Any friends who are local to the area or just don’t want to spend the money to travel home can attend, leaving you looking like the most generous host of the year. Whether you’re in college or just being an adult, attending a close friend’s or significant other’s family dinner is an option. As long as they promise to not leave your side at any moment, because hello, awkward! While this might be easier if you’re younger, it’s not totally out of the norm to be someone’s plus one at a holiday party. As long as the dinner isn’t super intimate you should be fine, but just in case, bring a little something like a pie to show your appreciation. My senior year of college I spent Thanksgiving volunteering at a local food bank in my university town. After spending the day serving food and talking to people in the community I suddenly wished I hadn’t spent the last 3 years moping about being stuck at home alone on the holiday. Taking the time to give back to your community is so rewarding, and is especially helpful during holiday seasons when regular volunteers travel back home or have plans of their own. Take the step to call local shelter and soup kitchen to ask if they need any extra help for the day. With apps like Skype, Hangouts, Facetime and about a million other forms of communication, there’s no reason to feel like you are completely separated from those you love. Spend the time to call your mom or dad, I’m sure they’ll love it no matter how busy the day is. If you feel you need an excuse to interrupt the festivities (which you don’t by the way) just ask for some help on how to make that dish you all used to eat together. Real talk, I always call my mom to ask her at what temperature to bake my chicken because no one bakes chicken as good as that woman. Instead of stressing out about all the things you’re missing back home use the time to start a tradition of your own. With five years of celebrating on my own I’ve grown comfortable with my own Thanksgiving routine, which is making a dinner for one, complaining how there is nothing good on TV and stalking the website of all my favorite stores. I’m too terrified to shop on Black Friday so I just like to watch from a distance.

What are your plans for Thanksgiving this year? Will you be with friends, family or flying solo?