I was going to start this blog post off with some witty joke and then maybe transition into my story, but you know what? Nah. My audience according to my site stats is 93% female. Meaning 93% of you know what it’s like to explain something ten different ways and still be looked at with a blank stare. So I’m going to start this blog the real way, the way I started the conversation with my best friend when this all went down.
Boy are so fucking dumb. Yeah, I said it. I honestly think they are the more stupid of the two sexes. I mean seriously, how many of us know a guy (or even dated a guy) who got caught doing something and still has the nerve to act as if you’ve blindsided him with new information? Okay, rant over. This is what happened to spark the creation of this post. Buckle up, ladies.
As I stood at the bus stop waiting for what I hoped would be the express bus, my phone lit up with an Instagram notification. See, just fifteen minutes prior I had posted a photo of me watching Hocus Pocus to celebrate the end of one of the most grueling classes I’ve ever taken. Actually here’s the photo, and since you’re already browsing, it would be cool if you followed me too. No pressure. Please follow me, moving on!
Anyways, as I scrolled through my notifications I saw a username of a certain someone who is no friend of mine. My goddamn ex boyfriend! You know the one. The guy who dumped me on New Years, was already searching for someone new before we were over, and has followed and unfollowed me in a ploy to get my attention. Here’s the thing though, he unfollowed me officially the day I posted a photo of my new man friend, since then flaunting his newest girlfriend of the month. Regardless, I’ve never blocked him, simply because I like knowing he can see how much better I am without him. But after last night, I think I found my reason to finally shut him out
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If you’re not sure whether or not you should unfriend an ex on social media, or go a step further and just block them, keep reading to see what you should do before you post another status update. The obvious reason that all your friends point out to you, blocking them means you can’t constantly check up on them anymore. The first few days are rough, but I promise if you stick to it you’ll stop wanting to much more quickly than if you hadn’t. Why is there this widespread belief that boys don’t also check your posts late at night? Boys dwell on things too! By blocking him you’re taking away his ability to see where you’re checking in and who you’re with. Let’s be honest with each other for a moment, we’ve all had those nights where we take our investigations a little too far. One second we’re searching our ex, then his best friend, then his best friend’s cute female cousin who is in town and just might be out with them! Prevent yourself from falling into this rabbit hole by taking away your access to all of it.
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Raise your hand if you ever felt good when stalking your ex after a break up? (all hands stay firmly down) Post break up is the worst time to cyberstalk an ex, and also the time you’re most likely to do it! By deleting them you take away the option and the feelings that come along with seeing something you didn’t like. Every minute you don’t spend obsessing over them is a minute you could spend doing something you’re truly passionate about. Everyone has that one thing they’ve always wanted to do but never take the initiative to try. For me, it’s always been writing. Figure out what your passion is and every time you get an urge to check up on an ex, take a step towards fulfilling that goal. Let’s not lie here, anyone who doesn’t block their ex on social media spend a little too much time thinking about what to post so that they look like they’re living every day to the fullest. Avoid filling your feed with false projections of how you really feel and comparing your day to day activities to your ex. The less you know, the better, cause you cant live every day like it’s the weekend. Can I get a round of applause for never contacting my ex after the day we broke up? Like really though, this is how I know I’ve matured. But you know what helped so much? Having zero contact, zero interaction, and zero temptation. Before I was all about staying friends and keeping in touch, but this time around I was all about that out of sight out of mind mindset. And guys, it worked!
Related Post: How to Deal with Exes on Social Media
I’ve been so guilty of doing the on and off relationship thing with boys, and each time it never works. By pushing your ex out of your life, but in real life and online, you allow yourself the time and energy to move on. You just cant move on when they still clog up space in your mind every day, at least not as easily as you could potentially without those daily reminders. You know what feels really good? Unfollowing an ex on social media and knowing they still keep tabs on what you’re up to. I have an ex boyfriend who to this day still likes my Instagram picture, even though he’s unfollowed me multiple times! Who knew that all I needed to do what ignore him for him to give a shit about my daily life? So if you wanna pull a Samantha and win your break up, you can skip blocking them and just unfollow and unfriend. This way they can still see all that you’re up to without the need for you to see any of their fuzzy, badly filtered posts. I mean, I’m just saying, boys suck at Instagram.
So tell me, what do you do once a relationship is over? Try to save the friendship you once had or quickly find the block button? Share your experiences in the comments below!
January 21, 2021
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I was going to start this blog post off with some witty joke and then maybe transition into my story, but you know what? Nah. My audience according to my site stats is 93% female. Meaning 93% of you know what it’s like to explain something ten different ways and still be looked at with a blank stare. So I’m going to start this blog the real way, the way I started the conversation with my best friend when this all went down.
Boy are so fucking dumb. Yeah, I said it. I honestly think they are the more stupid of the two sexes. I mean seriously, how many of us know a guy (or even dated a guy) who got caught doing something and still has the nerve to act as if you’ve blindsided him with new information? Okay, rant over. This is what happened to spark the creation of this post. Buckle up, ladies.
Anyways, as I scrolled through my notifications I saw a username of a certain someone who is no friend of mine. My goddamn ex boyfriend! You know the one. The guy who dumped me on New Years, was already searching for someone new before we were over, and has followed and unfollowed me in a ploy to get my attention. Here’s the thing though, he unfollowed me officially the day I posted a photo of my new man friend, since then flaunting his newest girlfriend of the month. Regardless, I’ve never blocked him, simply because I like knowing he can see how much better I am without him. But after last night, I think I found my reason to finally shut him out
Related Post: 10 Things That Happened the Day I Realized I Didn’t Love You Anymore.
If you’re not sure whether or not you should unfriend an ex on social media, or go a step further and just block them, keep reading to see what you should do before you post another status update. The obvious reason that all your friends point out to you, blocking them means you can’t constantly check up on them anymore. The first few days are rough, but I promise if you stick to it you’ll stop wanting to much more quickly than if you hadn’t. Why is there this widespread belief that boys don’t also check your posts late at night? Boys dwell on things too! By blocking him you’re taking away his ability to see where you’re checking in and who you’re with. Let’s be honest with each other for a moment, we’ve all had those nights where we take our investigations a little too far. One second we’re searching our ex, then his best friend, then his best friend’s cute female cousin who is in town and just might be out with them! Prevent yourself from falling into this rabbit hole by taking away your access to all of it.
Related Post: 100 Things to Do Instead of Calling Your Ex Boyfriend
Raise your hand if you ever felt good when stalking your ex after a break up? (all hands stay firmly down) Post break up is the worst time to cyberstalk an ex, and also the time you’re most likely to do it! By deleting them you take away the option and the feelings that come along with seeing something you didn’t like. Every minute you don’t spend obsessing over them is a minute you could spend doing something you’re truly passionate about. Everyone has that one thing they’ve always wanted to do but never take the initiative to try. For me, it’s always been writing. Figure out what your passion is and every time you get an urge to check up on an ex, take a step towards fulfilling that goal. Let’s not lie here, anyone who doesn’t block their ex on social media spend a little too much time thinking about what to post so that they look like they’re living every day to the fullest. Avoid filling your feed with false projections of how you really feel and comparing your day to day activities to your ex. The less you know, the better, cause you cant live every day like it’s the weekend. Can I get a round of applause for never contacting my ex after the day we broke up? Like really though, this is how I know I’ve matured. But you know what helped so much? Having zero contact, zero interaction, and zero temptation. Before I was all about staying friends and keeping in touch, but this time around I was all about that out of sight out of mind mindset. And guys, it worked!
Related Post: How to Deal with Exes on Social Media
I’ve been so guilty of doing the on and off relationship thing with boys, and each time it never works. By pushing your ex out of your life, but in real life and online, you allow yourself the time and energy to move on. You just cant move on when they still clog up space in your mind every day, at least not as easily as you could potentially without those daily reminders. You know what feels really good? Unfollowing an ex on social media and knowing they still keep tabs on what you’re up to. I have an ex boyfriend who to this day still likes my Instagram picture, even though he’s unfollowed me multiple times! Who knew that all I needed to do what ignore him for him to give a shit about my daily life? So if you wanna pull a Samantha and win your break up, you can skip blocking them and just unfollow and unfriend. This way they can still see all that you’re up to without the need for you to see any of their fuzzy, badly filtered posts. I mean, I’m just saying, boys suck at Instagram.
So tell me, what do you do once a relationship is over? Try to save the friendship you once had or quickly find the block button? Share your experiences in the comments below!